许多人对于我这次东亚的旅程有很多好奇的地方
也很好奇到底我去做些什么，在哪里，怎么做等等。
其实这都不太重要，重要的是在每一个我所接触的新朋友身上，都有生命与生命的交流
也正因为这些难能可贵的交流，而令旅途更加有意义。
记得有一个女孩，脸上总是戴着一副仿佛能把她自己给遮住的大黑框眼镜，
眼镜与她娇小的个子形成强烈的对比，还有一对在脸颊上抢眼的酒窝，
她长得很甜，是个开心果，身边总是围绕着许多的朋友，
但在我们俩单独聊天的时候，却露出了另外一面的她。
她父母在她还很小的时候就离异了，当她还在中学的时候，父母先后离世
她渴望被疼爱，渴望被关心，渴望被看重，
却也在当中迷失了自己。
我记得当她叙述这一切的时候，她眼眶里是湿润的，仿佛堆积已久的情绪无从发泄
我给了她一个拥抱，当她的聆听者，在离别前她开心地搂着我，说她从未与人提及这件事，就连相处已久的朋友也是如此。
心揪着，实在心疼她
但却也在她身上学到乐观坚强。
旅程是否快慢，去了多少的景点并不重要，重要的是，你在什么地方把心和感情放下了呢？
Lot of people curious about my trip to East Asia,
curious what I did there, where I visited, how and so on.
Actually, these are not that important, the important thing is what have I learned there.
We build up an interactive relationship and because of that, it makes my trip memorable and meaningful.
Remember a girl I met, she always wearing a pair of big black glasses as if it could cover her whole body.
Glasses and her size formed a strong contrast, besides that, there is an eye-catching pair of cheek on the dimples,
She is so sweet, having a pistachio character, always surround by lot of friends,
but during our one-on-one conversation, she exposed the other side of her.
Her parents divorced when she was very young, and while she was still in high school, her parents had died of cancer.
She is eager to be loved, eager to be concerned, eager to be valued,
But also lost in the midst of eager.
I remember when she narrated all these, her eyes filled with tear as if the accumulation of long-standing mood can not vent.
I gave her a hug, and be her listener, she hugged me, she told me that she had never mentioned it with others, and neither her longtime friend.
My heart was worried, really feel sorry for her.
But at the same time, I found optimistic and strong that came from her.
Whether the journey pace is fast or slow, or how many places you visit are not important, it is important that where you lay down your heart and feelings in it.
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